I don’t normally do this, but, hey, you read the headline. To my anonymous commenter from November 6: Dude, why’d you blast me on the internet? That’s so crude and low class. First, anyone who knows me knows I’m broke (check Sunday’s CJ for verification), and would never pay for a man’s meal. I don’t even want to dignify the rest of the asinine comments with a response. Luckily, I have moved on to something more satisfying. Like work. Like someone else. That was mean. But my motto is : so what?
And to the guy from
Listening to John Legend.
2 comments:
This is the first time I have viewed you blogs and I wanted to respond to a couple of them. First, on your Nov. 1st post. I am a “professional” black male that resides in Louisville and I also have a problem finding “professional” black women here in Louisville. Don’t get me wrong, I see them out but it seems like most of the females have their guard up and think that someone will try to dog them. I have had some actually ask me if I do dog females or say something like “you look like a lady’s man.” Just because I dress nice and keep myself groomed I am automatically a “lady’s man.” I have even tried to dress down when I go out. I have a group of “professional” black men that I go out with and that have the same problem, so its not just me. Yet when we travel to other cities and go out, the females we meet are more down to earth and are willing to at least carry a conversation. I don’t know what it is about Louisville but everyone seems really picky, including me. I think some of these "professional" females in Louisville need to look in the mirror. (Need I say, I take frequent trips to Naptown and Nashville). Second, the Nov. 6 post. The Dillard’s store for men has the best Ralph Lauren Polo collection in Louisville and also offer several other brands and styles that are not available in other stores (Macy’s too!).
This is the first time I've viewed your blogs, and I think you need a hug or something. I want to ask; Why are you so worried about others? Not once did I read anything were you exposed anything about yourself.(Except that you are a snob!) I feel that you are JEALOUS of your 'white' female counterparts. You want a sensitive, responsible, financially stable 'white' man packaged in a black man's body. Truth is you're never gonna find that if you continue to look for them where you might find whores.
Finding someone that meets those qualifications means that you also have to have those qualities yourself. You're smart and obviously adorable, so why don't you focus on those qualities? Why worry about where "all" of the MIDDLE-CLASS black men are, when you're only needing one? Another thing, 31 is an age where most "partypeople" want to settle down. How much of your time have you dedicated to fidelity, honesty, and trust? How many people have had to "share" you and not know? If you spend so much of your time focusing on being "single" you lose track of the impressions you're supposed to
give to possible mates. In short; Don't expect to find mature, trustworthy, and financially stable men so soon after leading a vicarious, carefree lifestyle. Take the time to do you and maybe what you're looking for will find you.
Sometime the frustrations you might feel come out in what you say. You're giving me the impression that you might want to dog instead of be dogged. It's people with overall views like the ones you display in your blogs that makes everyone guarded. If you started with yourself and controled or changed your pessimistic attitude, you might be more appealing to a MIDDLE-CLASS
black man. Quit looking at yourself through ROSE-COLORED GLASSES, and use the MAGNIFYING GLASS that you use to look at everyone else. This is coming from a low-class, financially strapped, and overlooked 31 year old black man.
p.s. If the 'ville is so yucky, go back to where you came from.(Oh! You probably was shitted on there also!)
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